For women, the biggest ticket to instant popularity with men is physical appearance. Men love thin bodies, high heels, and attractive eyes; they are absolute fools for beauty, even artificial beauty caused by cosmetics or surgery such as liposuction, breast implants, tummy tucks, dermal abrasion, and facelifts. If a woman has beauty and doesn’t say much, young men will credit her with wit, compassion, intelligence, humor, charm, and kindness even if she has none of these. As long as the woman possesses beauty and doesn’t say much, the man will be a fool.
A woman without beauty, however, is in the same predicament as a man without height. She must rely on other attributes such as social status, good character, and financial status to attract men.
Can a woman use the trade up strategy? No. Not in the same way as men. A man who has a girlfriend or wife is more attractive to new women. But a woman who has a husband or boyfriend is neither more attractive or less attractive to new men. However, a woman can certainly stay in a relationship until the relationship outlives its usefulness, dumping her man for a richer guy when the opportunity presents itself.
A woman without beauty, however, is in the same predicament as a man without height. She must rely on other attributes such as social status, good character, and financial status to attract men.
Can a woman use the trade up strategy? No. Not in the same way as men. A man who has a girlfriend or wife is more attractive to new women. But a woman who has a husband or boyfriend is neither more attractive or less attractive to new men. However, a woman can certainly stay in a relationship until the relationship outlives its usefulness, dumping her man for a richer guy when the opportunity presents itself.
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